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Saturday 17 September 2011

DATING TIP: How To Flirt And Why

DATING TIP: How To Flirt And Why 
   I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why 
it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and 
how to do it with women. 
 
   To begin with, women know what flirting is, and they 
respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they 
do to typical social communication. 
 
   If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can 
begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY 
feeling ATTRACTION for you. 
 
   If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension
 work, then you're either going to have to become famous or 
make a LOT of money to be successful with women. 
 
   I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, 
then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with 
women to SET THE RIGHT TONE. 
 
   Think of flirting like playing. 
 
   Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" 
with your friends? 
 
   What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" 
wrestling? 
 
   And how do you know the difference when it's happening... 
when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on 
you and tries to pin you? 
 
   The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and 
other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when 
they're serious. 
 
   Flirting is similar. 
 
   If you start talking to a woman and say "Hi, you're very 
pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal 
tone of voice, you're NOT flirting. 
 
   On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're 
probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I 
thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's 
OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting. 

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